Parent can do anything in order to have a bright future of their children. They encourage them for studies, giving good manners and etiquette, help them in achieving their targets, and make them responsible by guiding them what is correct and what is wrong. They also encourage them to develop skills and guide them about the different types of people of outside world. They stand with them always whether physically or not, in every huge milestone of life. The top 10 tips which every parent should follow in order to raise their children towards success are –
10. Incentives for each good work
Among children, giving incentives for doing a good work by their parent is a compliment and an achievement. Parent should always encourage their child to perform well in studies and in return gives incentives for securing good marks in studies. This method of giving incentives to children makes them to perform even much better in other tasks and greediness of incentives makes them successful as well as competitive in the outside world.
9. Avoid vulgar words
A child is habitual to those things and words which he does and sees other people doing in his practical life. Whatever words the parent uses at home, he sticks to those words and practice those words in his practical life. So parent must be attentive enough while having a word with their children. They must be careful of not using and vulgar words / slang words or any other word which makes a wrong impact on the character of that child. Parent should always communicate in English language with their children.
8. People Awareness
Parent should help their children to make them aware of the outside world, the different kinds of people with different thoughts and many more things regarding the outside world. People awareness is necessary in today’s modern period because each and every person wants to be successful and can do anything which makes him successful. So if a child has the ability to understand the feelings and nature of people in the outside world, he won’t get trapped into the web made by the outside world. They should advise them to understand the person properly and then make them friends.
7. Regular Spending time
A child becomes more close and dedicated to their parent and family if in the whole day, a considerable amount of time is spent by the parent among their children. More and more time spent among children, more etiquette are being learned and engulfed by the children. Spending time with children not means to be with their children always, rather it means having dinner with your children, ask them about how was the whole day, watching TV together, helping him in their homework and other problems.
Every child should be properly aware of his responsibility and if not then parent should help to make them aware. Responsibility helps in building the character of your child. Responsibility helps him to behave properly in the outside world and also help him to be aware of the people of the outside world. Initially when every child takes some responsibility on his shoulders, he surely makes a mistake but after some time, he calculates those mistakes and then makes a clean sweep. Responsibilities help him to plan according to the current situation. Thus planning ability of a child is improved thereby.
5. Health Caring
Health Caring is one of the biggest task among children. Parent should develop healthy routines for their children such as proper calories food, avoiding junk food to a large extent, proper lunch and dinner, yoga and exercise. Parent should encourage their children to have proper food to avoid health problems. Regular exercise must be done by the children to remain fit. Parent must encourage their children to focus mainly on outdoor activities as their skill instead of indoor activities. An outdoor activity tightens your muscles and helps you to remain fit.
4. Encourage them to develop skills
Beside studies and playing all the time, there are a lot of practical things that must be done by a child to make his future bright. At specific interval a child must be encouraged to do different kinds of activities that he loves to do. Some parent believes that skills and hobbies are meant for nothing in future but the importance of these skills is an essential requirement during their college life and also during their interviews. The skill involves any activities in which a child is good and happy. It may be dancing, singing, indoor activities, cricket, and any other outdoor activity. These skills not help a child in gaining knowledge but also helpful in making his / her future.
3. Importance of Studies
Study is necessary for children. In order to have a bright future for children, parent must timely tell the importance of studies in life and encourage them for studies at each phase of life. Rather forcing them to study all the time, a proper routine must be made for their studies; so that they can do some extra – curricular activities throughout the day and are not only bounded by studies. A child must be given importance of the school life as well as the college life which actually makes their future.
A child must be given proper rules and discipline by their parent so that they act in a descent way in front of others. They must be given proper etiquettes and ethics to behave properly in front of them and the outside world. Discipline is known as a key for success. Watching TV programs, playing all the time and many other activities executed by the children must be within limits. Though Internet is helpful in everyone’s life and today in this modern period it plays an important part of human life. But unnecessary internet usage by the children must be prohibited because it may also lead to illegal activities.
1. Avoid Overbearing
Overbearing in this context means that people wants their children to do all the things in the same way as they did in their young age. They generally overpowered their children which is not the correct method to guide them and to help them make their future successful. Instead of being overbearing, parent must be nurturing so that a kind respect is given to the parent by their children. Overbearing people does not relate their children life with the modern period. Parent just forces them to do that work that they themselves want.